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To Joplin I Go – God Willing :)

5 Jul

I have traveled up and down the West cost NUMEROUS times. I have even (briefly) been up to Canada as a youngin’ and Mexico twice. But I have NEVER traveled further east than Arizona. Let me show you a map of just how far East (or not so) Arizona is.

Now, I’m not one to complain. Really. I am VERY INCREDIBLY thankful to have been to Washington, Oregon, California, Nevada, and Arizona. But my love of accents and curiosity of the flat plains in the mid-West keeps pestering me.

On a more serious note…

When the tornadoes hit Joplin this past-May, the thought of a mission trip briefly crossed my mind. I didn’t think much of it until I overheard Shane talking to AJ about a plan to go a couple weeks ago. (I’m a middle child, i’m nosey!) I interrupted him (woops!) to verify what I heard was true…and it WAS! I was SUPER pumped about it – especially to go with many of my closest friends!!! But then…the dates were announced. September 1-9. And I was torn.

My older sister is due with her second child that same week. Right smack dab in the middle. September 6.

Sure, you can never really plan when to give birth (naturally). She can have it a week early or two weeks late. My sister wants me there, and I want to be there.

I also have my first family reunion in 11 years that same week.

I love spending time with my family, being around my own flesh and blood who love me. I want to be there, too!

But the passion to serve in my own country where people are in need was too strong to ignore and forget about.

I need to go where He wants me. And the Lord is calling me to Joplin.

With that being said, I need YOUR help.

I wholeheartedly believe that where God guides, God provides. And sometimes His provision is through support from others. I have been super blessed the last couple years I’ve gone to San Vicente, Mexico with the youth group as the timing of the trip is around the same time I get my tax refund check. But this time, it’s different and I am relying on God to provide the way for me to go. I will be saving as much as I can, but I know I won’t be able to do it all myself.

So, if you feel called to do so, please pray and if you feel lead to donate, please do. Even if all you can do is pray I will receive the funds, I will be just as thankful! Seriously!

I know how great and big our God is. The total amount for the trip is not for sure yet. Shane mentioned something in the area of $700-800. I also am taking a week off work, which is a pretty good chunk – especially coming off such a busy Summer. With that being said…my goal is $1000, ALL extra money I don’t need will be given to the Calvary Chapel in Joplin or to victims of the tornadoes directly.

I am excited for the opportunity to serve the Lord in the United States. Having been through natural disasters at my own house growing up, and being super blessed by my churches serving the Lord and helping my family, I am thankful to do the same for others.

Please pray for this trip. That all details will fall into place. That we may all be prepared to serve the Lord wholeheartedly and genuinely. That all funds for everyone will be provided, and if this trip is not the Lord’s will for me (or someone else), that we will be okay with that, too.

If you would like to donate to my trip fund, please click the image below. I am doing it through my Paypal. If you would like to send a donation in the mail, please email me at katiefargher@gmail.com.

Thank you.

In Christ love,

Kattie.

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The Older I Get…

25 Mar

The more wise I become! I amaze myself…and I give the glory to my Jesus!

Unfortunately, not everyone allows themselves to experience such a privilege.

But truly, the Lord has really been “seasoning” me, so to speak, over the last couple years. Through said wisdom, I watch out for warning signs…and i LISTENED to them. I knew what to pray for – and am thankful when I open my eyes and realize He is faithful to answer my prayers. Just not always in the manner I expect!

This verse caught my eye last night while going over 1 Thessalonians 4 at The Gathering –

“Faithful is He who calls you, and He also will bring it to pass.” 1 Thessalonians  5:24

It’s amazing to see His handiwork. It’s an amazing feeling when you take each moment as it is, not jumping to conclusions. It’s an amazing feeling when a dumb little thing can totally give you a different perspective over a heartbreaking situation.

Lessons have been learned, my expectations have grown, and my faith in my FAITHFUL Lord Jesus has increased.

Over some stupid little thing…but a stupid little thing He knew I needed.

He really is amazing…

And His grace and mercy is never ending.

It’s not good to be afraid to pray for something, He already knows it all…you can’t hide! Bring it to His throne – and His will be done!

Amen. Come, Lord Jesus!

Going Through the Motions

24 Mar

Growing up is most definitely rewarding, fulfilling, and interesting. But there are, of course, certain things in the moment that seem rather…useless.

Can i get an, “Amen!”?!?

Those moments always seem to make sense later on though…

When I look at pictures of myself and others, I ALWAYS look at the eyes. The eyes are said to be the window of the soul. They give away the truth of what the person is experiencing. Whether the truth is exhaustion, joy, fulfillment, accomplishment, sorrow, heartbreak, etc. Compare pictures of yourself or a friend from today to the ones two years ago, do you see the difference? The difference of a child becoming an adult? The difference of maturity in the eyes of a person?

Being able to see that difference is why i love Facebook. (Yes, I am going there!)

You see… it wasn’t always as easy to see the day by day changes of you and your peers after a couple years in a couple minutes. But with Facebook, all you gotta do is hit the right arrow key, and you are flipping through the life of a person and are able to see growth (or stagnancy) in but a moment! And I guarantee, if you look at the eyes of the person, you will notice a difference.

A difference that makes me yearn for the days of yesterday…but remind me to enjoy today because I don’t want to spend my whole life wishing I was still in the yesterday’s.

Life is definitely not where I want it.

Far from it.

I want to be a wife, I want to be a mom, I want to be a soccer mom (just without the jeans, haircut, and mini-van).

But this is where He has me. Today.

I am single. But that doesn’t mean I am not able to prepare myself for the future. It’s doesn’t mean life is boring. I still get asked out, which makes for good stories to giggle about with my friends. And I also still get to experience the giddyness of a new relationship…again (but hey, i love the giddyness!) There are possibilities in impossible situations…or in desperate circumstances where temptation lures for me to be bitter and evil.

What usually hangs me up on moving on from something…is remembering how great the past was. How happy I was at a certain time at different periods of my life…reminding myself in the blissful moments to take everything in, because I just might not get the chance to in the future. Something I had to learn to do.

The eyes I look into today do not hold the same innocence and immaturity as they once did. And as sad as that could be, I know it’s for the better.

I realize that my life has been wasted, once again…for far, far too long. I could have enjoyed my life much more had nothing ever happened, but now…I kinda am thankful. I know I learned a lot through everything…and 90% of the time I wish I didn’t have to learn it at all. At least at that time. But I find peace in knowing He has a reason. I am just impatiently waiting for that reason. I know through all the change taking place in my life at this time, my heart has and will continue to seek openness with my Jesus. For Him to do His good work in me as He promised in Romans 8:28. And there is still SO much that He can do.

And when i do find myself hurting, all I know I need is Jesus.

And maybe Jason Wade’s voice singing in the background…

😉

Better Luck Next Time -Lifehouse

Sometimes we fall
Ain’t nothing new to me
Don’t get me wrong
I must say you gave up for this time now

Stop tell me where you going
Maybe the one you love isn’t there
You’re going under
But you’re over it all so you don’t care about all that I had to see
I’d watch you wait until you come around

Don’t close your eyes
You need to see it all
It’s no surprise
That they break you down
At least they won’t give you up

Stop tell me where you going
Maybe the one you love isn’t there
You’re going under
But you’re over it all so you don’t care about all that I had to see
I’d watch you wait until you come around

It’s all wonderful
Living happily
To lose it all
Think you have everything

Stop tell me where you going
Maybe the one you love isn’t there
You’re going under
But you’re over it all so you don’t care about all that I had to see
I’d watch you wait until you come around

Stop tell me where you going
Maybe the one you love isn’t there
You’re going under
But you’re over it all so you don’t care about all that I had to see
I’d watch you wait until you come around

Haste the day

28 Dec

It’s been at least a week since I posted last, woops 🙂 I lacked motivation and/or a topic to write about, but alas…a topic has come to mind. And wouldn’t you know it, it was portrayed throughout my week without even realizing it!

I used to be one of those people who let fear run my life, always scared to be daring for fear of getting in trouble or yelled at. Once I got out of high school (or more so the last couple years of high school), that fear subsided…and what emerged was a fearless adventurous young woman. I guess by my 16th year, I realized there’s more to live for. Once I gave my life to Christ, fear was the only thing holding me back from enjoying life and living it to the full. For the first few years of the “new” me, I put fear behind me by doing shenanigans.

I remember my first shenanigan. I was 16 and my new church friends and I threw water balloons at cars in Marysville. It was so innocent and foolish…and yet, it changed my life for the better. I will NEVER forget the moment when we threw a balloon at a car from the MP soccer fields, their brake lights went on and we all dashed off as the bright field lights came on. All I could see amongst the fog was the silhouettes of all my friends. It was glorious. And it was only the beginning…

and then I started going to Calvary Chapel Lake Stevens, where even the pastors (one in particular) were in on the pranks. I became friends with Kaelee and Nigel, former prank-enemies, but together – indestructible. Two years of my life were full of shenanigans, but since this is not what this blog is about, I will shorten this part up with pictures of our greatest escapades.

…and then there’s Creation Fest, where shenanigans are eminent…especially when involving the Porta-potties…and pillows.

I know it seems like foolishness to many folks, but being involved with such things helped me forget about the chains of fear I placed on myself for the first 16 years of my life! I love adventure, and I very much despise letting moments pass by without redeeming the time…but not just with shenanigans.

This thought has come up a lot in the last week, I first realized it while visiting with my good friend, Deborah – who now lives in Oregon. Every conversation we had always turned back to Jesus, what He has done and is doing in our lives…and I appreciate that quality in her oh, so much…she is an AMAZING friend!

The day after Christmas I got the wonderful opportunity to visit with my aunt Tammy, uncle Jeff, and their sons from Arizona. We had dinner at Ivar’s on the sound and my one prayer for the night was to redeem the time. By the end of dinner, conversation was still fruitful and I wished I could have had more time to spend with them. Living here in Washington makes it hard to see them  as much as I’d like, but thankfully there’s facebook to keep us updated these days 🙂 It’s just more fun to interact in person!

All this being said, here’s some scripture that stuck out to me this week.

“Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.” Colossians 4:5-6

” ‘The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly. I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd gives His life for the sheep.’ ” John 10:10-11

Each moment wasted is a moment you’ll never get back, so redeem it. I don’t know about you, but when I let a moment pass in which I could live to the full…I feel like crap. It’s not just with unbelievers…but believers as well. I don’t have many friends like Deborah who always turn the conversation back to the Lord. Admiring that in her is a motivation for me to do that, humbly, with my Christian friends, too. It’s easy to get caught up in work…at work, but are you redeeming the time? Are you working for the Lord…or for men? The days when I work for the Lord are days I feel worthy of the money I earn.

When I was 19, this was portrayed as being an innocent yet silly teenager. I feel sad when I see teenagers try to act like they’re 25…because when they are actually 25, they’ll look back and realize they missed part of their youth. I had friends in school who’d look down on me for finding shenanigans fun, because real fun to them was getting drunk and high. I had people tell me that “churchies” are lame and don’t know how to have fun, really, I did. But now looking back to my teenage years, my regrets are not the times I participated in shenanigans, but the times I participated in worldly “fun”. It’s no fun.

How will you redeem today?